“How’d ya go, fella?!” Mark is a good sport about it and says they’ll remain friends, but then admits through a particularly pained grimace: “I feel a bit sad, Dad, to be honest.” His dad meets him at the fountain afterwards. His new companion, Maddi, ends things abruptly on a bench in Hyde Park. But this time, at the Australian Museum, he had gone on about the dinosaurs. He had been so excited after the first one – waxing lyrical to his mum. I’ll never forget the scene where his dad picks him up from a failed second date. As though he’s constantly cringing about the last thing he said. He’s a gentle and attractive young guy who often wears a pained expression. The characters let it out, they hug their mum, and then they just keep going. The series’ producers carefully but playfully reveal just how much those “on the spectrum” must confront what are really just ordinary and everyday desires and fears. In Australia, a Royal Commission into Violence, Abuse, Neglect and Exploitation of People with Disability has held hearings since April 2019, regularly drawing to light extraordinary stories of mistreatment.īut as much as shameful treatment must be confronted through these formal channels, shows like Love on the Spectrum also play an important role in shattering the stigmas and attitudes that cause much of the mistreatment in the first place. The United Nations has celebrated the “ International Day of Disabled Persons” on 3 December since 1992, “to promote understanding of disability issues and mobilise support for the dignity, rights and well-being of persons with disabilities”. The shift in public attitudes about disability has been marked in recent years. His eyes are wide with shock as he declares, far too loudly, to no one in particular – “that was very awkward”. Michael performs well, but his date, who is also on the spectrum, suffers a panic attack mid-evening and abruptly leaves the restaurant. His cool, calm and collected younger brother writes him little notes in advance, to keep in his pocket as reminders during the night. “Mate, if she doesn’t seem interested in what you’re saying – change the subject.” He wears a suit to every date and redoes his hair upwards of 300 times before leaving the house. We meet the very alert and no-nonsense Michael, who cannot wait to find his other half.
LOVE ON THE SPECTRUM SERIES
Love on the Spectrum is a documentary series which follows seven young autistic people on their quest for companionship.Ī doco about love and autism? Surely it would be cringeworthy? Exploitative? I initially had misgivings, perhaps due to many common preconceptions about people on the spectrum, but found it to be nothing of the sort.
Look back on the series and watch for more recommendations and reflections in the days ahead.
LOVE ON THE SPECTRUM TV
An end-of-year series as the Lowy Institute staff and Interpreter contributors offer their favourite books, articles, films or TV programs this year.
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